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Send to a friend Hello all Down Low Brothers, I am posting this to see if some of you can help me understand more. Why don't you use protection? Why don't you tell your wives? How do you look your children in the face? Why not just be gay? Asking all DL Brothers to respond.Posted 10 hours ago
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- Hello to the one DL Brother that responded to this I have to give you your kudos because I 've never taken a step back and think that there myabe some exaggerations out there. I know the Black community is not accepting of black gay men, so I understand some men may have issue with that. I don't want my post to be misunderstood. I have NO problem with Black men who are gay, I have a problem with men cheating without condoms and not letting your partner know the complete truth about your lifestyle. That is not a DL thing bc straight men do it all the time, but I understand that, I've heard the "ain't no pu$$y like new pu$$y' from str8 men (not to say that is proper bc it is still a stupid excuse to lie and decieve someone) but I didn't undertand how a man can love a women and then sleep with another man, so I really was trying to understand, not condem. Some people who have responded are very offensive to gay men and I am not trying to do that, thank you for the response as well as opening my eyes to a different outlook
Posted 5 months ago - I see that none of the DL brothers have responded yet but from a real female point of view I think that DL BROTHERS are all cowards that play in the barn yard together. If you call them gay they will be offended so I just call it a pure sin. Its true THE DEVIL IS A LIAR AND H*LL NO THAT WAS NOT GODS CALLING FOR YOU. I will pray for all of you freaks out there so GET THE MONKEY OFF YOUR SHOULDER AND OUT OF YOUR A**.
Posted 6 months ago - I don't understand why any DL Brothers have not responded, I'm certain some of you have had sex with a man today or yesterday and went home to your wives and kissed them and probably had sex with them too. Is it too hard to respond because then you have to be real with yourself and you much rather keep lying to yourself and your families. If you are MAN enough to do it in the dark be MAN enough to shed some light on it.
Posted 6 months ago - Let me just say this once...
You cannot lump all DL men in the same boat. I use and all my dl friends have always used protection. Yes, there are some that don't but there are many heterosexual men that do the same thing. Trust I know, as I have str8 friends that rant about chicks they scored with in spontaneous places. I just advise anyone to use protection, as HIV is killing the black community, but I am not placing blame on anyone.
Next, I never had done the wife and kids thing, because it's too much for me. So I have a live in female that knows about me and everyone else just wants us to get married already... However, we just really cool friends, and she doesn't want anyone to know about my sexuality as much I do. :) Until the black community becomes more open and accepting of gay or dl men... the problem will only get worse.
The reason why you might not have a response yet is because there are more brothers on the DL NOT having unprotected sex and NOT living the married life.
Your definition and hate against brothers on low is the main reason I have keep my stuff a secret. I don't want to be lump and hit with every STEROTYPE about DL... It would be insulting if other races demanding responses from blks about the stereotype of being promiscuous. Look don't believe the Hype, well stereotypes in this case.
Posted 7 months ago - liars. cowards. and men jealous of female prowess... thats what the dl homo is about... its sad that men put on this tuff exterior and they are really the softest weakest species god created... think about their biblical weakness... men wish to be women because they are too weak to handle the pressure of being Man...weak bastards. keep screwing each other!
Posted 6 months ago - Wow, as many DL brothers there are, none but one has replied. I am a straight black female and I have plenty of gay cousins. They tell me all about it. I just assume dl men don't use protection becaue u can't get a man pregnant. But u can catch anything. just cause it looks good, doesnt mean its good for u!
Posted 6 months ago - What is down low? A man that has sex with a man that is not out. It does not mean that every DL brother is married or bisexual. It does not mean that everyone that is DL is having unprotected sex.
There are a lot of hetrosexuals people having random and unprotected sex. Please don't blam the DL brothers for HIV AND AIDS. Are there some bad apples out here yes. DL, hetrosexual and BI bad apples but I do not think it is the norm.
Posted 6 months ago - Wow, I just read my initial post and if I was a DL man I wouldn't have responded either, it is condeming and lumps all DL men in the same category, Sorry wasn't trying to be offensive I just wanted clarity from those DL men that led double lieves and don't tell their partners, not all DL men do that, so I apologize. Didn't mean to stereotype.
Posted 6 months ago - I agree with the last post. As a homosexual closeted man, I find that it is defaming to me. I have a boyfriend and dont have any sexual encounters with women and neither does he. Me and my boyfriend having started having sex yet, but we will definitely always use protection (and we both know that we're negative). We just want to get in the habit of using protection. I think people should stop focusing on who is giving HIV to others and just learn to protect themselves. You cannot blame no one for acquring HIV except yourself unless someone rapes you or you're born with it. Just wrap it up everytime. ITS THAT SIMPLE.
Posted 6 months ago - I agree with the last post. As a homosexual closeted man, I find that it is defaming to me. I have a boyfriend and dont have any sexual encounters with women and neither does he. Me and my boyfriend HAVEN'T started having sex yet, but we will definitely always use protection (and we both know that we're negative). We just want to get in the habit of using protection. I think people should stop focusing on who is giving HIV to others and just learn to protect themselves. You cannot blame no one for acquring HIV except yourself unless someone rapes you or you're born with it. Just wrap it up everytime. ITS THAT SIMPLE.
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Posted 6 months ago - Hello all
Its always hard to face difficult questions about your personal life. I got married young trying to suppress what i felt inside. I have grown up in a strict Christian home with abusive step-dad. always drunk and abusive. Mom was always busy trying to take care of us and teaching us the word. I knew at an early age that I was gay but never acted on it. I prayed and prayed to be str8. I tried to suppress even more buty dating any girl that would have me which was none at all. I was always told I was too short or too dark for them and i didnt have anything to offer them. It was ok because i really was not sure what I wanted from them. I went to Alabama State University for a summer program when I had my first encounter with a man. He was older but kind to me made me feel excepted and comfortable with myself for the first time. we never had sex but a close friendship. I was 20 before i met the first guy that i had sex with and i felt very guilty about it so i went to church prayed and prayed sought help from the Church and it turn into gosip about me. i had to leave that Church. I found that most so called Christian are quit to judge but not to support and encourage. I got a lot just pray, fast and avoid men it was more suppressing. finally i met a girl in church and thought maybe we can work. I married her and the first couple of years were fine but eventually I became more an more depressed and then suicidal so i decided to try to talk to her and explain my feelings and she turned that against me and decide to tell my sister which tore my family apart. I believe in God and love God but my life now as a gay man is between me and God. He is my judge and my Jury. I am not down low. I told my ex before i started to date guys and I use condoms and left my wife not for a man but for me. we stayed together for 3more years after that and I didnt have sex with here for 3 years. It was my choice not hers she felt she could change me. My advice is be honest with yourself first and then be ready to except what may happen for your honesty. Sister if you suppect you have a DL face the truth talk to him if you can. Its between the you if you want to continue or part ways. I can say the truth does set you free
Posted 5 months ago - Bravo I like you and what you wrote. You have to be u u can't be what otheres want.
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