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Send to a friend Sup...I had sex on DL with a brother and I saw him for the first time in a year and he looks like he got the bug. He could not even look at me kept walking like he did not see me.
That is messed up but here is my problem I did not use protection and now I am affraid I my have to tell my wife so, that we both can get tested.
My boys tell me to keep it to myself and not tell her. I want to tell here but I love here so much and I do not want to mess up my marrigae.
What is a brother to do?
Posted 19 minutes ago
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- othing wrong with being bisexual, but ALL your partenrs have a RIGHT to know about your risky behaviour. TELL your wife, let her decide what she wants to do, u never know, she may be down with it! but u r a dumb azz for f/u/c/k/ing around raw! luv urself more than that!!!
Posted 6 months ago - If your ass loved her you wouldn't be sleeping around with men in the first place. Damn shame; do you know that DL brothers are the cause of African American women between the ages of 15 - 25 being the highest group of people getting infected by AIDS?
Theres no sense of me schooling you. Go get yourself tested before anything. That way if you don't have it you can keep that skeleton in your closet. However if you are infected.. then you know what to do.
Don't be greedy and pick or chose.. ONE at at time bro. ONE at a time.
Posted 7 months ago - u need to pray! thats why the world is so messed up today because of people like you that go around spreading hiv and aids how could u look at yourself in the mirror and call yourself a man? a real man wouldnt cheat, especially with a
Posted 6 months ago - You should tell her if you love her like you say, why shouldn't she decide if she wants her man to be on the DL...you already know she is going to hate you so let her choose her destiny not you and your wants....you are selfish, inconsiderate, and just plain nasty....
Posted 6 months ago - honesty is the key..please tell her and you'll work it out you shouldn't be behind her back with a man or a woman...i had a liar and a cheat but I appreciate a person who can admit their wrong and confess
Posted 6 months ago - You love her so much but you would KILL her and not even let her know, WTF, WTF, WTF, yall need to quit with this DL sh*t it will kill us, women who are married believing they are safe, pleas stop it, let her know for you and your kids.
Posted 6 months ago - All I have to say is CONDOMS!!!! CONDOMS!!! Why people don't use them i will never know! Especially when there is so much STUFF GOING AROUND out there!
Posted 6 months ago - Hold you claim you love your wife, but why put your
self in that situtation. Does your wife know your gay, cause that's what you are gay. It's sad because she trusting you and look what you are doing. Men like you are spineless gumps, be man about what you are doing out here in these streets. I feel sorry for your wife, cause she has no idea what is going!! So you need to get tested and so does your wife.
Posted 6 months ago - First of all i want to address the comment above, a person stated that DL men are not the reason for Afican Amercan women catching HIV and that it is just people not using condoms in general. While there is some trueth to that, I say men pn the DL contibute to the B.S. I also think that when people especially men stray away to be with the same sex it is mostly insecurities with in that person. The sad part about a man on the DL is that they don't like to use condoms AT ALL and this came from Mr. J.L. King himself. I mean it's just another worry for black women. There used to be a time when women worried about other women taking their men now you have to worry about a man taking your man. We are truely living in the last days.
Posted 6 months ago - You know what this just needs to stop. When you decided to start playing barn yard games and snickin around you put a dark cloud over you marriage. I how that you teach your sins to be different because you will be exposed one day. Maybe even by one of your trustee boyz..
Posted 6 months ago - I just stupid or shouldn't we just stop using the term "down freekin low"???!
you're obviously bisexual. okay! let it out and be real to yourself and your wife about it.
give her the right/option of wanting to be with you. it's just not fair.
what the hell is that & where did it come from?! lol
not knocking gays or bisexuals...hell, i let my homegirl go down on me!! but all i'm saying is be real about it. screw this hush hush stuff. give wifey the option of wanting to be with a man that likes to screw (or be screwed by) men. some women are cool with it.
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Posted 7 months ago - u gay lol...now tats some sick sh*t & than u married 2.ur wife is goin 2 kill u man.f**k wat ur boys say if i was u i would tell her and quick 2 u know.well hope things work out later bye fool..............................................$$love me sexymama$$
Posted 6 months ago - You should have thought about that when you were getting your ass plugged up. It makes me sick that men like you exist. Choose a team, and allow the woman to make a choice. Let her know what is going on. You are sooo selfish and disrespectful. I hope your wife castrates your fuc*ing ass
Posted 6 months ago - you are disgusting. i am a woman and if yo nasty ass want to be gay then do that but don't jepordize a straight woman for you freaky ways. you need to ask jesus to forgive you
Posted 7 months ago - By now, you must know...do you have the bug? I really hope not. I hope that God gives you ONE MORE CHANCE to show Him that you CAN respect the breaths He gives you every day, and respect people. I think you should tell your wife, no matter if you've got the bug, or not. Love is honest, not selfish, or scared. If you love her, or ever loved her, tell her the truth and take whatever happens. If you let her know that this is who you are, and she does not accept you for who you are (not for cheating) then she was never worth it.
I'm coming at you like a human, unlike a lot of judgemental stuff I read on here towards you. We all have made a mistake, this is why this site is frequented by so many...so do your SOUL a favor, tell the truth.
Posted 6 months ago - You need to be honest with her because you are but her and your life in danger. It is not all about.
Also pray to the good Lor
Posted 4 weeks ago - I'm doing your wife and i know she's not positive cuz i'm not. Bi the way I'm a WOMAN!!!!!!!
Posted 6 months ago - U don't love her, cause it would have never happend... *******hole!!!!!!
Posted 6 months ago - You need to tell your wife. Married ppl don't keep secrets from each other. You will slip up and do it again if you liked it. You broke you marriage vows. Tell her. You betrayed her. You ought to be ashamed of your self. Then ask God to forgive and deliver from homosexuality if you want to save your marriage! Be glad if she decides to give you another chance and Thank God for it. I honestly don't think I can see myself being with a man that had sex with another man. Wow!! Just pray and ask God to help you because he can do everything. You just have to want to be delivered! Homosexuality is a sin and it will send you to hell. God destroyed a 2 whole cities because of homosexuality. Sodom and Gomorrah.. Get it together people. Adultery and homosexuality are sins.. Ask the Lord to forgive and to relieved you and ask him to save your marriage!
Posted 1 year ago - WOMEN SO MANY MEN ARE BI OR GET DOWN ON THE LOW YOU MAY THINK NOT YOUR MAN BUT PLEASE DON'T PUT IT PAST HIM. ITS A REALLY GOOD CHANCE THAT THE MAN YOUR SLEEPING WITH RIGHT NOW HAS MESSED AROUND WITH ANOTHER MAN AT SOME POINT IN THEIR LIFE. SORRY TO BRING YOU THE NEWS.
Posted 1 year ago - I am hetrosexual. I had to write something in regards to your situation. I was talking to my dr. about HIV. He said that all his HIV cases are Drug users (sharing needles), men who have sex with men, and woman that have sex with bi-sexual men. It is a known fact that HIV is harder for a man to get from having vaginal sex with a woman. It is harder, but a man can still get it. The problem with anal sex is that the rectum bleeds. If not lubricated, the friction can cuase minor cuts on the penis therefore allowing the virus to pass to the other person. The person being sexxed (the bottom) is always at greater risk. having anal sex with a woman or male is puts the person on top at greater risk. There is proven facts that tit is harder for circumsized men to get the virus. HARDER, BUT NOT THERE IS STILL A RISK.
As for you homie. If your attracted to men, fine. Have sex with men, fine. Have unprotected sex with men, fine. You have a wife. It isn't fair to her for you to engaged in this type of sexaual beahvior. Point blank. Thats real. Whats done is done. Get tested!!! Like the guy said if your negative, keep your mouth shut. It appears you will keep doing it. If that is the case, you need to let your wife know and let her decide.
Posted 1 year ago - Jesus loves you! He doesn't love what you do...just like he doesn't a Christian telling lies, gossiping, stealing, being deceptive. Truth. When you know the truth you are then held accountable for what you know. The truth is that God hates all sin and therefore He sent His son to die for us. Now the Word talks about Christ being tempted in all phases of life that we currently deal with. Technology removed, He was probably tempted with the same thing that you actually do with dudes. Truth. He did not sin or yield to temptation. He died for you because He chose to obey His Father and lay down His life for you and me....and everyone else. But make it personal..He died for you, young brother. The comfort you get from another dude pales in comparison from the comfort you receive from Christ!
Posted 9 months ago - you should get tested first and not have sex wtih her until you the results back saying your negative.... i know you love here but please dont risk her life please.... im a femail and i would want my man to tell me
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