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Send to a friend[835] He Had Sex With My Friend
I got married in September 2007 so have been married for about 5 months now.In January i started speaking to a girl that i used to be best friends with but we fell out a few years back. Everything with her was going great, i got my social back and was able to have a good friendship with her again.
Just 3 weeks ago my husband walked out on me and told me that he still loved me but needed to clear his head, he had been a bit depressed lately as he'd lost his job.
My 'friend' had stayed with me regulary over the next couple of weeks and had been a real comfort.
Just last week my husband called and said that we need to try and work things out and that he didnt want us to be over. My 'friend' was with me at the time.
My husband and i had a chat on the phone about what we could do to start afresh and something clicked inside me, i dont know why. I decided to look at my 'friends' messages on her phone as she had fallen asleep. I was shocked to find messages from my husband saying that he loved her and had left me for her.
I prompty kicked her out and have not spoken to either of them since.
He has sent me a couple of messages saying sorry and that he loves me but nothing since the day after i found out.
I changed my mobile and home phone number and have chosen not to get in contact with him but am not sure if im doing the right thing so would love some guidence.
Thank u for listening.
Posted 3 days ago
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Comments
- you did the right tihing u could did something hurtfultothem but u didn't. that's makes u the bigger person.
Posted 11 months ago - DAMN DAMN DAMN, move on girl move on.
Posted 1 year ago - At least you found out before you took his shady azz back!!! Divorce him and go on a vacation you need one!!!
Posted 11 months ago - you did the right thing, what a low life your husband and your friend was. You know you're better than them and don't let them get you down. If he can cheat on you so early in your marriage then what hope is there for later?
Posted 11 months ago - you did the right thing sweetheart. he wasn;tgoing to tell you these things but he wanted to start fresh. it would have been a reply of the first split.
Posted 11 months ago - u'r great for not degrading u'rself. men expect women to accept their b.s. despite the hurt we feel and thats insane for women to continue to accept it...its another man girl and u;r hubby was lying so he wasnt even what u thought u were marrying... stay involved in making u happy and let him do his thing w/o hurting u.
Posted 11 months ago - get a women and not your girl friend..lol
Posted 11 months ago - OMG!!! They are both dirty ass people. A dog have more sense than that. My heart goes out to you and I pray that God gives you the strength to move on. (YOU DESERVE SO MUCH BETTER).
If you ever need a friend to talk to hit me up. This is crazy!
Posted 11 months ago - OH EM GEE.. YOU did great honey. They are both dirty. I know that you are glad that (I believe it was God) told you to look at that phone. YOu found everything you needed!!!!! May you find a better man. Now divorce him!!
Posted 1 year ago - OMG!!!! I would have kicked both of their ass. Because first of all she knew she was sleeping with and that was her reason for trying befriend you again. I'm assumming to rub it in your face. For the brother, that was totally disrespectful for playing both sides knowingly. I guess it was going to use both of yall because he was out of work. I guess he was at her house while she was at yours. Kee your head up my sister and stay true to yourself. That is not love. That is betrayal and womanizing.
Posted 7 months ago
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